{"id":49,"date":"2020-03-28T05:47:48","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T05:47:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/?p=49"},"modified":"2020-03-28T05:47:48","modified_gmt":"2020-03-28T05:47:48","slug":"friday-march-27","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/2020\/03\/28\/friday-march-27\/","title":{"rendered":"Friday, March 27"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Feeling the urge to bust into Instagram influencer mode and declare myself #blessed. Yesterday, my wonderful colleague heard me complaining on a Microsoft Teams chat about how I&#8217;d neglected to bring my art supplies home from campus. The craft situation in our household was dire. We were down to half a crayon and one crusty marker, which I kept trying to revive by dipping it in water. She dropped off a huge bag of crafting supplies for Dot, plus some chocolate and candy for me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then, today, my parents dropped off some toys that they&#8217;d kept at their house for Dot, along with the best gift of all: toilet paper. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We really are lucky to have people who care about us during this time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Today, I went grocery shopping for the first time in nearly 3 weeks. Usually, Dot and I go shopping nearly every day. Dot loves the free piece of fruit at the grocery store, and she is a &#8220;very big helper&#8221; pushing the tiny carts that they have there. I love our usual routine of breakfast, store, coffee shop, park, lunch, nap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But today, there was no time for a toddler helper to careen through the aisles, filling the cart with Peppa Pig colouring books. Just me and my careful list, sorted by aisle. I planned to go early, hoping there&#8217;d still be toilet paper (there wasn&#8217;t).  I arrived at just the wrong time and couldn&#8217;t find a shopping cart, so I lugged two baskets around, filling them with everything on our list. It was so bizarre to approach this mundane task with military precision: to feel as if I was entering enemy territory, dodging and weaving around customers to keep my social distance. The baskets and shopping bags were so heavy that my wrists were raw by the time I was done. When I got home, I wiped everything down with Clorox wipes, put them away, changed my clothes and had a shower.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"498\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-498x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Arm with bruises from carrying heavy bags\" class=\"wp-image-50\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-498x1024.jpg 498w, https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-146x300.jpg 146w, https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-768x1580.jpg 768w, https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-747x1536.jpg 747w, https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-996x2048.jpg 996w, https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-900x1851.jpg 900w, https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-1280x2633.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/wordpress.kpu.ca\/arley\/files\/2020\/03\/20200327_110250-scaled.jpg 1244w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 498px) 100vw, 498px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In 2009, I had a failed hip replacement and had to relearn how to walk. (I blogged through that too). I was supposed to get a blood transfusion, but didn&#8217;t, and so even shuffling a block would require a 4 hour nap. I spent a lot of time in bed, full of nervy boredom. Today&#8217;s grocery store trip reminded me of the first time I went to a grocery store after the hip replacement. I can&#8217;t even remember what I bought, but I remember standing in the aisle on my crutches, trying to reach something from the shelf, feeling as if I was pushing through dense gravity, thinking, &#8220;Wow, I used to do this all the time and it was just a normal thing.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But what a wonderful feeling to be home, freshly showered, my cupboards full of food, toilet paper in the cupboard, re-upped on mini eggs (thanks mom!). So many people don&#8217;t have that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And what a wonderful feeling to spend an hour in the rain with Dot as she investigated the chestnuts on the ground, turning each one in her hand, peeling off the outer layer &#8220;like an orange.&#8221; What a wonderful feeling to watch her dirty little hands making sense of the word, and to look at chestnuts as if for the first time. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Feeling the urge to bust into Instagram influencer mode and declare myself #blessed. Yesterday, my wonderful colleague heard me complaining on a Microsoft Teams chat about how I&#8217;d neglected to bring my art supplies home from campus. The craft situation in our household was dire. 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